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I started writing this almost a year ago.   I just could not bring myself to post it.   It is very personal.   Then the rape of the young woman on New Year’s Eve happened…and it rocked the jiu jitsu community.   I still waited.   Today I decided I needed to release this burden.   Here goes…this is for my sister. I share a lot about myself and my family on this blog, but something that most of you probably don’t know is that I had an older sister.   Her name was Melissa.   She was four years older than me.   When I was little I would follow her around and hang on to her every word, and if she asked me to do something (even if I knew it probably wasn’t a good idea) I did it anyway, she was my big sister after all.   We rocked along like this for a while until the little sisters came along and she didn’t really want to play with me anymore, she was four years older than me after all.   But, I have really good memories of her and me as ...

You might be wondering where Mrs. Ibarra has been for the last month.   I haven’t fallen off the face of the earth, just extremely busy.   Work has decided to go a little crazy on me, but I’m trying not to let it affect my training like I usually do.   I’ve got to keep my perspective and keep things balanced.   So, on the jiu jitsu front, I went to another Hannette Staack seminar in San Antonio.   It was just as good as the first one.   This time around we worked on deep half guard.   I love half guard, but still trying to wrap my head around deep half guard.   I know you can make anything work for your body type in jiu jitsu; you just have to play with it until you get it right.   I’m going to have to play with this one a bit more to find the right fit.   And that folks is one of the reasons why I love jiu jitsu.     Saw some really great news today – Hannette Staack and Fenom Kimonos Announce Pro-Partnership.   Check it ...